In Loving Memory of Anthony James Cox (Koby Falks)

👼7 September 1985 - 28 May 2025👼

It is with deep sadness that we announce the tragic passing of Anthony Cox, known to many as Koby Falks, on May 28, 2025. Anthony was a beloved content creator, known for his warmth, charisma, and professionalism. He was 39 years old.

I shared some formative years in Sydney with him, and he was unfailingly sweet and kind. Heaven has gained an angel; may he rest in peace 🌟

Anthony, or Koby, (or Fonda to his Sydney friends), was a light to many, connecting with people not just in Australia but across the world.

Anthony's legacy will live on in the hearts of those who knew and loved him. May the colours of the rainbow remind us of the love and light he shared, and the promise of a reunion in a better place. May the Rainbow Christ embrace you and bring comfort to your family and friends 💖

 

Family Note 💙

Sunday, 26 October 2025

Anthony was many things to many people.

He was a cherished son, an adored big brother, a loyal friend, an award-winning film editor, a Navy officer, a scuba-diver, a globetrotting adventurer and - sometimes - just a very naughty boy.

He was a complex, multifaceted human being. He sparkled with charm and wit. He was the light and soul of our family.

Anthony gave us younger siblings a truly magical childhood. He was a creative force from a young age; whatever movie we watched, he would recreate for us. One of our favourite memories is Anthony waking us early – the morning after watching Charlotte's Web – to weave a spider's web of bright orange wool all around the house.

Our parents have always been so proud of him. They love to talk about him and his cleverness and his daring escapades. He is the only person who can render our cheeky dad speechless or make our mother collapse in a fit of giggles.

We will miss him and his magic always.

We love you Anthony x

A Poem for Anthony 🌈

Tear drops, slow and steady,
The pain so real and true,
God took another angel,
And that angel, dear, was you.

Angel wings, upon the clouds,
Your body softly sleeps,
Hush now little angel,
No more tears you have to weep.

Little prayers are sent to you,
The short life you led;
Your family will never forget you,
So rest your little head.

I know God will look after you,
Now you are truly alive,
Your spirit soars beyond the moon,
Your legacy will survive.

You're beautiful, you're endless,
Now stretch your wings and fly,
You're loved by so many,
It will never be goodbye.

Close your pretty eyes,
No more tears, just go and rest,
Let your soul lie peacefully,
We know you did your best.

The Rainbow Christ in Anthony

Anthony lived out the message of the Rainbow Christ Prayer, embracing love, diversity, and the worth of each person. Like a rainbow, he brought people together and inspired others to accept themselves with courage and pride.

Detail from "Christ and the Two Marys" by William Holman Hunt

Community Mourning: The LGBTQ+ community mourned the loss of Anthony and we pay our respects to his family and friends.

Share your memories of Anthony in the comments below. 💭

If you are affected by this news, please reach out to Lifeline at 13 11 14 📞 or visit our counselling resources.

A song in remembrance 🎵

Funeral Service Information 🕊️

June 7, 2025 update: Anthony's funeral was held in Tasmania on 14th June 2025. View the service details here.

💖 Forever in our hearts 💖

Anthony Cox (Koby Falks) - A light that will never dim